More then possible with OctaEdit:
In the Samples module in OctaEdit you can simply click on a sample and it will show you where it is used anywhere in the Project (or other Projects in the Set)
You just need to switch on the [ Analytics ] option in the Samples Module; and the results will be displayed in the Analytics module automagically.
The same logic exists within the Manager module; and applies to both the Source and Target Sets/Projects.