Stop giving encouragement and stop seeking encouragement until you’ve found that place within yourself that values you, yourself, and your work in its own right, independent of the resonance it may or may not create in the world around you.
This sort of “reciprocal complementing” is a formula for psycho-spiritual disaster. If you give encouragement or a compliment, give it without expectation or don’t give it at all. Equally, unless you respect yourself and your own work first, no one will give you or your work (genuine) respect. But once you respect yourself/your work, what others think and feel about it becomes less existentially important to you and you develop a confidence from within rather than without.
Be truly honest with yourself in regard to your work, be so with love (ie not judgement but just an honest observation), and keep doing your best and see how things change around you also.