but it could happen. my neighbour for example - he has a daughter, she’s now 12 years old and its a beautiful young girl. you can already see that she might become a very attractive women one day. one day we had a beer and we also spoke about that. sometimes he already ask’s himself: what happens the day she brings her first boyfriend home? will he become fastidious; not accepting that she likes him just because he think that boy isnt good enough for her daughter? or will he relax and just calm down; accepting what she wants? he’s separated already; just 2 years older than i am. his daughter is visiting him every 2 weekends or so. at that point im a bit glad that i dont have own childs. no need to worry about stuff like that one day on the other hand i think he’s very proud of his daughter; that he brought such a beautiful human being to life - regardless of all the headaches involved
well, this is going into a direction where one could almost ask himself: are we selfish? is it selfish to get children because we want to be proud of them one day? is it stupid to think that one might have missed its natural given task to reproduce - if he/she doesnt? i twaddle too much - i should go to bed now