Karen meme

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(@RTFM thank you for your understanding, much appreciated)

Here is the picture that launched the discussion, I don’t caution it and reintroduce it only for the sake of the discussion.
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Imagine the same pedal, but with a black curly hair and some typical racist ā€œblack people attributesā€. Would you be that proud of the joke?
That’s how such sexist meme rings to me.

As a moderator, I just can’t allow this.
I was about to hide this, but I’d rather discuss this cause it bothers me deeply.
I could do this in private, but I do it publicly for everyone to understand.

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I really don’t like people using that name as they do

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My opinion is that, as this speaks to a specific type of personality, and not necessarily the color of their skin, it’s ok (I’ve witnessed men be called Karen too). If there were a ā€œChadā€ - overtly sensitive, aggressive distortion pedal - I’d probably buy it immediately based on name alone.

(Edit: God I wish I were proficient at photoshop right now. I have a reimagined RAT-font ā€œCHADā€ pedal in my head with relevant setting ranges.)

I always thought taking the piss out of overprivileged babies was fair game. I am open to reconsideration.

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Please do, because as a non native speaker I don’t get the sexism here. It could also be ā€žKarl Speaker Managerā€œ Right?

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Imagine if your name was Karen ?

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Ok that’s fair and it’s probably difficult for Karens these days (I know only one Karen and she doesn’t mind…she thinks it’s funny)

But @LyingDalai is asking specifically about the possible sexism.

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Maybe my name is Karen. :thinking:
It’s just a joke. And not a good one. I don’t see the sexism. Please elaborate.

it’s not about the sex of the person in the meme - it’s only about their antisocial attitude - there is a complementary generic set of names for the moaning Darens etc

Don’t see any issue here at all

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I dunno.

I see how things like this can be seen as sexist, but I don’t think the intent is to denigrate women, just a subset of middle class western entitlement.

Also, we have to be careful of double standards.

I see a lot of stereotyping on here to do with people trying to paint certain harder styles of techno/electronic music as ā€œbroā€ music (which is hilarious, given the proliferation of successful female artists in this area) which goes completely unnoticed by both mods and morality Police.
We should be careful of being hypersensitive to certain stereotypes if we’re going to be completely blind to other ones.

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Dont see the sexism here … but pretty sure to saw way worse regularly here…

It’s gotten a lot better over the years, in no small part due to such conscious moderation.

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Pretty sure to recently have read something along the line of Ā» buy first, excuse later Ā« speaking of the wife… recently and had been suprised. Not erased du to this subject sensituvity here

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Oh I didn’t see that.

Still, if ā€œthat’s allā€ (and I’m not excusing it) that’s nothing compared to how it used to be.

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Huh. Man I’m so out of touch with the world.
The button says ā€˜bring me the manager’
And the knobs say ā€˜Rage’ and ā€˜Tone’ and it has another knob ā€˜dont use that tone with me’

Speaker manager. Is the person wanting the manager Karen? Or is the manager Karen?

Makes no sense to me. I dont get it at all.

But then, I had no idea about the Karen meme as linked by @avantronica until I read the link.

So is it sexist? No. Is it stereotyping? No I dont think it is.

I’ll go back to my hermit cave now.

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Haven`t know about this Karen Meme, too.

after reading the above and setting the pedal mockup in kontext, this could be thought of an Discrimination-Booster-Pedal?! Is this common ground of the critics?

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That’s also my take on it, and as was mentioned there are plenty of male equivalents, like chads etc.

Of course it’s sexist! That’s why ppl love it lol
All those stereotypes are there for channeling aggression (and sexually); doesn’t matter against who, race, sex, gender, nationality, religion… it’s always against ā€˜others’.
Society need to persist in using healthier ways to channel them, but it’s hard sometimes. Historically it was done in a form of sports (watching it or doing it), sex, occupations (hitting things with a sledgehammer, cutting things, verbal and logical domination in a court, fixing things, creating things, helping others…). Also, we used to have regular wars in which we would release some ā€œevil bloodā€. Ppl are progressively more unable to self-regulate their emotions (many factors but most notably early developmental problems related to relationship between a primary caregiver and a baby, our modern way of life, stress, lose of bigger families, mother being alone with a child…, later in life stress, unsatisfying place in society, loneliness, emotional problems, dependences… ) and later in life those individuals are unable to channel their primal desires and needs, cant find their place in society and they become chronically frustrated and toxic. We all have this problem, but some manage to deal with it healthier than others.
Im all against stereotypes and related forms of aggression but we need a replacement for them. We need to focus on healthier choices! Let’s make music for a change! Let’s make love! (especially with Karens)

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The way I’ve understood the Karen meme is that it’s got everything to do with the insufferable behaviour of some individuals and basically nothing to do with gender.
To me it doesn“t seem like an attack on women or people named Karen but instead on unhinged sociopaths and control freaks. If we lose the ability to process these kind of matters through the humorous space I think we are in big trouble.

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Haha, I am actually thinking more about a ā€œinstant-mastering pluginā€ kind of thing.
You know, with the joke of the Chads being these kind of overly attractive and succesful guys – and therefore pretty superficial and non-insightful about themselves.

Making spicy memes is a very nuanced art, isn’t it. :crazy_face: