no no no no noooo … there is ONE thing I did not experience when I was growing up
my parents being HAPPY and loving what they do
the more I think about that … there is either : overworked mom and dad who tell their offspring how hard they work so they can have a happy life , but there is no NO time for being in a good mood, and spending happy time with the family.
because all the energy available goes into working
bad examples to see when you are a child.
I d rather have my mom and dad be creative and happy what they do and have time for me.
was not the case…
keep the boxes, strive after what makes you happy AND BE happy around your children… this will influence them their entire adulthood and shape their look on life … probably more than money can buy them …
see daddy happy with his boxes , look at him with a smile, see him smile = priceless
daddy bring home money, dont disturb daddy, daddy is tired from working. why does daddy never smile? daddy thinks of making music all the time but in a bad mood because all he does is working …
get the picture?
I dont have chldren, I know about financial responsibility … but lets ask another question:
would you rather grow up poor(er) with parents who lived loving what they do and have time and interest for you, or nobody around for your emotional needs but money, food, good clothes, proper housing ?
darn hard question. …
for me : I wish I had seen more of my parents.