The Dirt games always seemed like something I’d love in theory. I grew up in the woods bordering on miles and miles of ex-logging roads (all dirt) and used to ride dirt bikes, go karts, mad max vehicles, etc. on them every chance I had. Later on in life, I got into Porsches, and have been driving them ever since minus a section where I had smaller kids needing to go to and from school etc.
I also love watching rally races on occasion when I think about it.
So, one would think these games would be perfect for me. However, I also had trouble just staying on the road. They’re supposed to be a mix of fun and simulation, but in my experience, as soon as a game gets to be too heavy on the simulation side, they become hard to play, even with steering wheel setups. So I’ve always leaned toward full-arcade racers. (Outruns, Ridge Racers, etc. and then futuristic stuff like WipeOut, RedOut, Fast Racing, etc.)
What’s funny to me, is that never in my life of driving and racing all these vehicles did I feel like I had to work at keeping them on the road (whether in dirt, or on the street). I don’t know, I’ve just always felt pretty close to at one with any vehicle I hopped into after a few minutes of getting the nuances of the particular vehicle, bike, kart, thing, etc. and then start pushing it a bit.
Games that are heavier on simulation elements always feel like I have to overcorrect back and forth back and forth back and forth until I end up driving into something.
Never had the problem in a real car, even at “naughty” speeds.
I actually bought all of the Dirt and Rally games for Steam though, so maybe I’ll give them another chance at some point, and try to push through to see if I can get some fun out of them. 
I also have this thing though that I like most of my games to be things outside the realm of real life things that I could actually go do, so I play more RPGs, action games, adventure games, and arcade games. (and keep my racing to 300+ MPH
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Speaking of those, if you even slightly like the WipeOut style of future racing, RedOut 2 is absolutely INCREDIBLE. Highly recommend it.