My guess it’s because frequency are very closed to the Kick especially for the Bass Tom. Try acoustic one or lower in pitch a Mid Tom and put a bit of Overdrive to it then… Try a Filter to remove some of the Low Frequency on Electronic Tom can help too as it will make room for the Kick without too much frequency clash.
Try Micro-Timing so it’s not that much on the exact same position to the Kick. Micro-Timing before or After and then choose the groove effect will suit better to your track… generally i prefer before… but sometimes after work better.
Tuning your Toms well is very important too. (when you sound design them)
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