What source are you analyzing? Something you recorded or live monitors? If a recording, does it sound muddy going in? If so, Id suggested changing the sound. Find a different kick/hi-hat combo that already blends the way you want. You will drive yourself mad and waste time trying to fix something with EQ. If you are referring to live sound…errr… I dont want to go there. Too many extraneous variables. I once bought a digital drum tuner that would give me precise readings of lug frequencies. Instead of helping me tune my drums better it just made me spend hours on tuning/checking lug frequencies and eventually I was doing just fine before when I was doing it by ear. Just me though.