Roland TR8-S And Ableton

Hi all

Ok so im using my TR8-s with external in (roland se-02) and also as sound interface wich means i have my headphones in the TR8-S. Now in ableton i have created seperate channels for all instruments and the se-02 (12 channels) Its all working fine except i hear all channels during recording and playback etc.

Now i would like the audio to be controlled by ableton say i mute all but the kick i only want to hear the kick but since my audio source is also the tr8-s i hear everything at once when playing a pattern etc.

How do i make ableton controll all sources and not having to fade down all other instruments on the tr8-s if you get my point. I can obviously do it that way but seems like there should be a solution to this?