Most of them are not like this one actually, so you have a lot to choose from if you don’t like this. For me, this looks like a lot, but a lot of care taken for keeping it a safer space for the people in there. Why should they do things “for you”? they are doing things for themselves as they want it. they might not aim to convince you to join them, although I think is nice to see more and more people in the fediverse.
Sometimes there is this analogy to explain the fediverse with email protocol, so i thought of this:
saying that you dont like mastodon because you dont like a server is like saying you dont like to send emails because you dont like gmail.
edit: of course you have the right not to like mastodon or the fediverse. i am also not trying to convince anybody.
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