Lot’s of negativity here.
It was not rare for bands to be liked locally before the internet existed. I mean, perhaps if you live in a tiny part of a huge nation things will be more awkward for you but then same goes for everything and you should probably consider moving if you don’t like that kind of isolation.
If you live where you live because of your job, consider what it brings you and where you want to be in 5 years time. Money is not the root of all evil, it’s more a necessary evil. Maybe at some point you can redress the balance?
Even if you’ve only ever written one joke song on an elastic band but some guy wants to fly you to his country to perform it, then you should probably just do it and see where it takes you. You have nothing to lose and lots to gain, and not just financially.
It seems to me like for most people, Spotify is somewhere between the radio and a jukebox you’ve loaded yourself. Most musicians would have killed for that in the past.
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