Many people simply do not have the option to just get involved in a local music scene. In my experience there is no electronic music scene (that are not DJs) to even speak of. Even if there were, what if it’s in another gente? Open Mics here are usually for acoustic bands, do you think that crowd will be receptive to a guy making dub techno on a Digitakt? My particular situation aside, I can think of several reason engaging in local community might be much more difficult than some people might think.
I speak mostly from the perspective of “experimental” music, or in other words music that does not fit in to a particular, perhaps more lucrative, mold. Unless you are in a big city where there are places that allow for live music in the particular genre, you are essentially fucked.
In any case, you can say “well thats part of the struggle/grind, you have to find your people” and that’s true! I would encourage anyone to build community in their neighborhood/whatever. But organizing something like that takes a certain kind of initiative that would be unfair to expect everyone to have. I’m a strong advocate for touching grass and being in community, but music and art in general is too subjective — one can’t count on the fact that there is a dub techno scene somewhere close to you.
The dream would be for everyone to find a friend or two who also makes music and find a way to jam together etc, but that’s a huge gift and not common in my experience.
Given all of this, its easy to think that the internet/social media is a good option. Soundcloud and to an extent bandcamp are good options. Even though they too have suffered the consequences of financial pressures and investor demands. You can upload there for free and engage in the social media thing to get followers, sure enough.
Spotify’s business model is, at best, just another avenue to share your music. But their 1000 play limit before payout is a huge kick in the balls.
One, because it would be quite naive to think they won’t raise it in the future. Two, because an indie act will only eventually break the 1000 play mark. So despite having your stuff on SC + Bandcamp (sometimes for free!!) your fans ask you to put stuff on Spotify (because in my humble opinion, they are pampered in their consumption methods). But you will most likely lose money on a distrokid sub in the long run. So I don’t blame OP at all. And hey, if they cant be arsed to type in bandcamp dot com to listen/download your music, are they really a fan ? 
I echo similar sentiments that Spotify (and one could argue most) streaming services are too concerned with the bottom line to be salvageable and it’s better to look somewhere else. I would even say Spotify’s days are numbered.
For now, Youtube, bandcamp and soundcloud give you enough freedom that make them more viable, though they are not perfect.