Totally understand and respect that and I appreciate you saying so. There’s a lot of different perspectives in this thread, so the OP’s got plenty of material to take into advise.
In the end, none of us can say what works best for anyone else, only offer our own experience which may or may not be relevant to whoever’s asking.
As you say and I appreciate, as long as there’s mutual respect that we’re coming from different directions and we’re going to different places, we’ll all be fine in the end.
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