my approach to that stuff has been pretty much vice versa.
i had to learn all that parameters for school without having the possibility
to try all of them on actual hardware.
later i recognized that when using that hardware i totally forgot to change
parameters just randomly and listening to it. on different machines you can find the same parameters but the actual audio behaves completely different.
knowing the physics helps a lot to get sounds on purpouse,
but going the naive way helps a lot too.
you can find endless material on these topics in the www or in books
but never forget rule number one: use your ears !