Hey,
There are a lot of nice acoustic drum samples which you can get for free, however it’s always going to come down to personal taste. I think you’re going to run into that time and again, that not everybody has the same view of what a perfect kit is, or which snare works best with which kick and hi-hats, etc.
Probably going to be necessary to at least once invest that time into making yourself a kit that sounds good to you.
I find that more often than not, I’m like “I’ll just use this snare for now and then change it out later” and when later comes I’m too lazy to do it, so on the one hand it says maybe it wasn’t as big of a choice as I made it out to be, but on the other hand it says having a nice snare that you’re happy with ahead of time is not necessarily a bad thing so I do understand why you want to do this.
A lot of free acoustic drum samples in this link (below) that I shared here a couple of years ago, you might consider getting some content together and comparing that against the factory samples. You may end up using the factory samples but do yourself a favor and use your own ears to figure it out so that ultimately, you can also be the one who likes what you hear.